I had been thinking i needed to leave. Mary had gotten snappy at me and I felt so ragged. Help has dropped off so I need to rally some people for when I leave. Everything triggers both of them. its just so sad here. tonight we ate thai food and I got them to watch an episode of brain dead- not terribly successful. then eric went to bed and mary and i binge watched fleabag. Corbin the neighborhood cat came in and lay down on the couch between him. Mary is allergic but pet him anyway. I can here her weeping in her bedroom. eric is with her now. I have to remember I am holding on by a thread. Today I posted a picture on facebook of eric and mary lying on the floor by the crematorium oven while leif burned. I hadn't posted in a while. this is what I wrote: This is such a hard picture to post: My friends Mary and Eric lying on the floor after pushing an open box containing their son Leif into the crematorium oven. Eric had made a small wooden viking ship for Leif's body whi